[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.ochmt.cz\/nepritahuji-me-zeny-ale-muzi-co-s-tim\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.ochmt.cz\/nepritahuji-me-zeny-ale-muzi-co-s-tim\/","headline":"Nep\u0159itahuj\u00ed m\u011b \u017eeny, ale mu\u017ei, co s t\u00edm?","name":"Nep\u0159itahuj\u00ed m\u011b \u017eeny, ale mu\u017ei, co s t\u00edm?","description":"Lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed si neum\u00ed homosexualitu v\u016fbec p\u0159ipustit, tak\u00e9 nikdy nep\u0159ipust\u00ed, \u017ee takov\u00ed lid\u00e9 nejsou nemocn\u00ed, jak oni se domn\u00edvaj\u00ed, a \u017ee by se to snad dalo l\u00e9\u010dit, ale \u017ee se s touhle sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed orientac\u00ed prost\u011b narod\u00ed. Mu\u017ei je\u0161t\u011b v dob\u00e1ch ned\u00e1vn\u00fdch se sna\u017eili zalo\u017eit rodiny, p\u0159esto, \u017ee o sob\u011b v\u011bd\u011bli, nebo minim\u00e1ln\u011b tu\u0161ili, \u017ee je […]","datePublished":"2023-05-06","dateModified":"2023-05-06","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.ochmt.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.ochmt.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/16435f0a6c9262449b9ebb39f63178cd65c54b09f931b6f84682f48086e3d763?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/16435f0a6c9262449b9ebb39f63178cd65c54b09f931b6f84682f48086e3d763?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"ochmt.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.ochmt.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a293730_w1795_t1505890281.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.ochmt.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a293730_w1795_t1505890281.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.ochmt.cz\/nepritahuji-me-zeny-ale-muzi-co-s-tim\/","wordCount":601,"articleBody":"Lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed si neum\u00ed homosexualitu v\u016fbec p\u0159ipustit, tak\u00e9 nikdy nep\u0159ipust\u00ed, \u017ee takov\u00ed lid\u00e9 nejsou nemocn\u00ed, jak oni se domn\u00edvaj\u00ed, a \u017ee by se to snad dalo l\u00e9\u010dit, ale \u017ee se s touhle sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed orientac\u00ed prost\u011b narod\u00ed. Mu\u017ei je\u0161t\u011b v dob\u00e1ch ned\u00e1vn\u00fdch se sna\u017eili zalo\u017eit rodiny, p\u0159esto, \u017ee o sob\u011b v\u011bd\u011bli, nebo minim\u00e1ln\u011b tu\u0161ili, \u017ee je p\u0159itahuj\u00ed mu\u017ei. Co\u017e byla fat\u00e1ln\u00ed chyba, hlavn\u011b, pokud se ve svazku narodily d\u011bti, stejn\u011b takov\u00fd vztah nevydr\u017e\u00ed, mu\u017e je po celou tu dobu vlastn\u011b ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, a v\u011bt\u0161inou to dopadlo tak, \u017ee se takov\u00fd vztah rozpadl, a mu\u017e se vydal za hlasem sv\u00e9ho srdce. Dne\u0161n\u00ed doba u\u017e nen\u00ed tolik nekompromisn\u00ed, n\u011bkter\u00e9 st\u00e1ty umo\u017e\u0148uj\u00ed partner\u016fm stejn\u00e9ho pohlav\u00ed uzav\u00edrat registrovan\u00e9 partnerstv\u00ed apod., \u017eijeme ale v \u010cech\u00e1ch, tady n\u011bkter\u00e9 p\u0159edsudky je\u0161t\u011b panuj\u00ed, jak se tedy jako mu\u017e nejl\u00e9pe zachovat, pokud zjist\u00edte, \u017ee V\u00e1s p\u0159itahuj\u00ed mu\u017ei? Jak v\u016fbec oslovit n\u011bjak\u00e9ho mu\u017ee, kter\u00fd V\u00e1s p\u0159itahuje? Pozor, v t\u011bchto kruz\u00edch se objevuje tak\u00e9 dost podvodn\u00edk\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed vyu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed toho, \u017ee v na\u0161\u00ed republice se to v\u011bt\u0161ina homosexu\u00e1l\u016f sna\u017e\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b st\u00e1le tajit.1) V prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b si to p\u0159iznejte sami sob\u011b, pokud o sob\u011b v\u00edte, \u017ee \u017eeny V\u00e1s po sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed str\u00e1nce v\u016fbec nep\u0159itahuj\u00ed, ale naopak V\u00e1s p\u0159itahuj\u00ed mu\u017ei, nem\u00e1 smysl s\u00e1m sob\u011b n\u011bco nalh\u00e1vat \u2013 opravdu V\u00e1s to nep\u0159ejde. Je dobr\u00e9 sv\u011b\u0159it se i rodi\u010d\u016fm, m\u011bli by V\u00e1s pochopit a podpo\u0159it, pokud jsou to rozumn\u00ed lid\u00e9. Se sv\u011b\u0159ov\u00e1n\u00edm se kamar\u00e1d\u016fm si to mus\u00edte zv\u00e1\u017eit sami, z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed, jak \u201edobr\u00e9\u201c kamar\u00e1dy m\u00e1te, pokud jsou to Va\u0161i opravdov\u00ed p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9, pochop\u00ed to.2) Samoz\u0159ejmost\u00ed bude, \u017ee budete cht\u00edt nav\u00e1zat vztah \u2013 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 se, \u017ee jeden gay to na druh\u00e9m pozn\u00e1, zda je tak\u00e9 nebo nen\u00ed, je to op\u011bt na Va\u0161em uv\u00e1\u017een\u00ed, pokud se V\u00e1m n\u011bkter\u00fd mu\u017e l\u00edb\u00ed, a mysl\u00edte si o n\u011bm, \u017ee je stejn\u011b sexu\u00e1ln\u011b orientovan\u00fd, jist\u011b mu nepo\u0161lete kytici jako by poslal mu\u017e, kter\u00e9mu se l\u00edb\u00ed \u017eeny, dobr\u00fd zp\u016fsob je, sej\u00edt se u k\u00e1vy a otev\u0159en\u011b si promluvit, dal\u0161\u00ed mo\u017enost\u00ed jsou tak\u00e9 seznamky na internetu, nebo ve v\u011bt\u0161\u00edch m\u011bstech gay kluby, v obou p\u0159\u00edpadech si v\u0161ak dejte pozor pr\u00e1v\u011b na podvodn\u00edky, kter\u00fdch je ostatn\u011b dost i na seznamk\u00e1ch pro heterosexu\u00e1ly.3) Pokud nav\u00e1\u017eete vztah, a ten zajde tak daleko, \u017ee spole\u010dn\u011b budete cht\u00edt \u017e\u00edt, budete si muset nastavit vlastn\u00ed pravidla, v homosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm vztahu to v\u011bt\u0161inou nefunguje tak klasicky jako v heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm, kde b\u00fdvalo, \u017ee mu\u017e je \u017eivitel rodiny a \u017eena se star\u00e1 o dom\u00e1cnost, ani tento model u\u017e v\u011bt\u0161inou neplat\u00ed. To u\u017e z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed hlavn\u011b na oboustrann\u00e9 komunikaci, jak si podobn\u00e9 role, jako kdo uva\u0159\u00ed ve\u010de\u0159i apod., rozd\u011bl\u00edte.4) Velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 v homosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm vztahu je pr\u00e1v\u011b komunikace a vz\u00e1jemn\u00e1 podpora, mus\u00edte si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee i kdy\u017e pr\u00e1v\u011b V\u00e1s t\u0159eba rodina pochop\u00ed a podpo\u0159\u00ed, u Va\u0161eho partnera to tak b\u00fdt nemus\u00ed, proto Vy mu mus\u00edte b\u00fdt tou nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed oporou.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.7\/5 - (10 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Nep\u0159itahuj\u00ed m\u011b \u017eeny, ale mu\u017ei, co s t\u00edm?","item":"https:\/\/www.ochmt.cz\/nepritahuji-me-zeny-ale-muzi-co-s-tim\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]